Charging one ‘easily or often’ cry or complain is manipulation of perceptions of others to yours or yours to mine. It is about time we proudly take up the crybaby role in this ridiculous journey on earth (or later-on in space) and mourn the fact that we still have to live even though our toes knocking on the table corners hurts af.
Begone with all the be-strong and resilient talks. JUST CRY
I cried my way into this world, and am very likely to share a tear or two on my deathbed, so why not moisture the in-between also? Let us be true and commit to the crybaby way of navigating lives. Let tears leak, drip, russ, corrode, droll, erode, drain, drown, drink, and be drunk. JUST CRY hopefully, as I get out of the pool, walking forward, I'll see my body slowly dry.
Find whomever that may spare a little compassion. Like a long needed shower on a hot summer day put on a show of excessive whining, crying, howling, and sobbing: put on display the so called insecurity, frustration, disappointments, also!! the slightest dissatisfactions. ！！
Public toilets are recommended because tissues are free and sinks close-by. Be petty, be unreasonable. Refuse to ‘solve’ in the sense of problem-shooting(?) and let us locate the liquidy ‘solution’ instead-- Tear: some chemicals as the solute and water as the solvent. JUST CRY Interpret crying in a way that simply releases something out of you, like a splinter embedded under your skin, when you pull it out,
JUST CRY!!!! Sob until you cannot breathe normally. Get puffy eyes. They are soon-to-be, if not already, in trend.
Be unnecessarily melancholy, because who gets to decide what is necessary. You know you are blessed with the talent of associating (debatably) small problems with universe-wrecking catastrophes. So cry as if you are the centre of the world and introduce floods and typhoons in our moody performances. It only makes sense because none of us had experienced the world other than ourselves being the pivot point, (debatably) pseudo center(s). Free fall into the narcissistic tendency if you are blessed with such gravity. JUST CRY